3880 Rush-Mendon Rd
Mendon NY, 14506

(585) 624-8070
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For those who wish to find peace of mind and comfort in restful surroundings go no further than Benincasa’s in-house non denominational chapel. The Chapel is available for the use of residents, their relatives, and friends, members of staff and anyone in the community.

Benincasa also has a wonderful dedicated library of books to help carry you though these tough times. We are very proud of our “lending library” and happily make it available to everyone in the community. Among the many good books, some of our favorites are:
Adult Books
  • Don't Let Death Ruin Your Life
  • Facing Death & The Life After
  • Final Gifts
  • Grieving the Death of a Friend
  • How Can I Help Papa
  • Living Beyond Loss
  • Motherless Daughters
  • The Caregivers Book
  • The Survivor Assistance Handbook: A Guide for Financial Transition
  • What's Heaven
  • When Parents Die
  • You Can Help Someone Who's Grieving
Children's Books
  • Dad! Why'd Did You Leave Me?
  • Honoring the One You Love
  • The Fall of Freddie the Leaf
  • The Grieving Child
  • Why Did Daddy Die?
  • You Can't Get There from Here
  • Sympathy cards for children are available too. It is important for children to acknowledge loss too
Additionally you might want to visit some of these websites. They serve to be a wonderful resource for many people who have recently lost a loved one.

Grief Recovery Institute 818-907-9600
Famous grief expert, Russell Friedman, offers a wealth of information and a great action program for moving beyond loss.

Kubler-Ross Center
Famous author helping Americans deal with grief and loss.

The Dougy Center 866-775-5683
A resource for grieving children, teens, and the people who care about them.

AARP 888-687-2277
A non-profit organization dedicated to helping older Americans.

Center for Loss 970-226-6050
Director Dr. Alan Wolfelt is a noted author, educator and grief counselor.

Parents without Partners 561-391-8833
Devoted to the welfare of single parents and their children.

Young Widows and Widowers 845-463-2548
You might be young but you are not alone.

Compassionate Friends877-969-0010
The Compassionate Friends is a national nonprofit, self-help support organization that offers friendship and understanding to bereaved parents, grandparents and siblings.